‘If salary is less than 1 lakh then there is no marriage…’, debate on demand of girl’s parents in arranged marriage – high salary yet no Marriage viral post Sparks debate on IT engineer’s Struggles tstf
Marriage is such a decision of life, which can change your entire world. Everyone has some dreams in their mind about their partner. These dreams can be different for both boys and girls. But the real trouble starts when the standards of choosing a boy or girl for marriage become so high that it seems impossible to fulfill them. A post is going viral these days on social media, in which the truth about marriage and matchmaking is being shared. Statement has been made.
Investor and entrepreneur Vineet has given his opinion on the process of checking the status of boys in marriage on behalf of the girl’s family. In his post, he said that many times the girl’s parents have such expectations from the boy which are impractical, like high salary, house and car. How does a 28-year-old boy, who has just started his career, do all this? No one even thinks about this.
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‘Expecting salary from the groom is madness’
Vineet wrote in his post that the salary expected from the groom during the wedding match is crazy… If the person is in IT then a salary of less than Rs 1 lakh is not even considered. There is a need to reset the thinking of parents. How can a 28 year old boy earn one to two lakhs and also have his own car and house? Your generation had all this after retirement. Vineet shared this post on his X’s handle @DealsDhamaka.
‘People with salary less than Rs 1 lakh should not marry’
This post of Vineet has received more than one million views and hundreds of comments so far. People’s opinion is divided on this. One user wrote that if your salary is less than Rs 1 lakh then don’t even think of marriage. It is not possible for a family to survive on this much money in a metro city.
On the other hand, someone wrote that every girl has the right to choose a life partner who can give her a better life. Someone else believed that it was the girl’s choice. It is not necessary for everyone to get married. Status is also required for marriage.
At the same time, some people raised the question whether boys also get the choice that their wife’s salary should be higher? Whereas someone said that there is no demand for boys.
Another user said that materialistic thinking has now become dominant in a relationship like marriage. You may find someone who earns Rs 2 lakh, but you may not find someone who truly loves you. Someone wrote that a man wants true love in his life, but a girl wants salary along with love.
‘When the engineer had to show his salary slip’
Such a case came to light in Farrukhabad, Uttar Pradesh, where the marriage procession returned without the bride. The bride put the garland around the groom’s neck, but flatly refused to take the garland. Everyone was surprised to know the reason.
Actually, the bride was told that the groom was in a government job, but in reality he turned out to be a private engineer. As soon as the bride came to know about this, she refused to marry. Both parties tried hard to convince him, but the groom had to return without the bride. This incident had sparked a similar debate on social media.
